Most therapists agree that the term "personality disorder" sounds awful, particularly to someone who hears it for the first time. On the other hand, it does attempt to describe something that is very real for many people - that habitual ways of responding to life events can repeatedly cause difficulties in relationships, in work and in life in general. When such problematic responses arise in many different areas of life to quite a severe degree, then "personality disorder" may be the most appropriate term to use.